Bothering Jesus

The apostles gathered around Jesus and reported to him all they had done and taught . Then, because so many people were coming and going that they did not even have a chance to eat, he said to them, Come with me by yourselves to a quiet place and get some rest.

So they went away by themselves in a boat to a solitary place. But many who saw them leaving recognized them and ran on foot from all the towns and got there ahead of them. When Jesus landed and saw a large crowd, he had compassion on them, because they were like sheep without a shepherd. So he began teaching them many things.

By this time it was late in the day, so his disciples came to him. This is a remote place, they said, and it's already very late. Send the people away so they can go to the surrounding countryside and villages and buy themselves something to eat.

But he answered, You give them something to eat.

They said to him That would take eight months of a man's wages. Are we to go and spend that much on bread and give it to them to eat?

How many loaves do you have? he asked. Go and see.

When they found out, they said, Five and two fish.

Then Jesus directed them to have all the people sit down in groups on the green grass. So they sat down in groups of hundreds and fifties. Taking the five loaves and the two fish and looking up to heaven, he gave thanks and broke the loaves. Then he gave them to his disciples to set before the people. He also divided the two fish among them all. They all ate and were satisfied, and the disciples picked up twelve basketsful of broken pieces of bread and fish. The number of the men who had eaten was five thousand.

Mark 6:30-44    (N.I.V.)

All of us live by theories. We learn them very early in life. Many of them are unprovable. They become encapsulated in slogans, such as, The early bird gets the worm. Some people operate on the basis of the slogan, Smile and the world smiles with you; cry and you cry alone.

We may learn them from an important person in our lives. Sometimes children come up with really wacky theories, such as, Step on a crack and you'll break your mother's back. There is a movie, As Good As It Gets. This is about a poor fellow who operated on that theory. It's hilarious. He had a psychological problem, you might say.

Another theory that we may adopt is, If at first you don't succeed, for heaven's sakes, give up! I'm going to talk about this last theory in a context of our passage this morning. Jesus said to his disciples, in effect, We need some rest. We've been helping people, healing and teaching. Come with me to a quiet place. You know what happened? People saw Jesus and the disciples leaving for this solitary place. As soon as his disciples arrived at their destination, they discovered that many people had arrived there before them. Thus, when Jesus and his disciples reached this quiet place to rest, there was no quiet. There was no rest. The same crowds from whom they were trying to escape were there as well. Their plans were foiled.

The crowd was so excited to know where Jesus was going, they forgot to bring food with them. Notice the response of the disciples. They came to Jesus and said, Jesus, the hour is late. We did not ask these people to come here. Have them people go into town on their own and buy some food. Have them be responsible for themselves. The disciples had a point.

Jesus could have been very irritated. Here I am, going around teaching and healing; I'm tired. I need a break. I want a little time away. However, he was not irritated; rather, he had compassion.

The crowd did not accept Jesus' possible unavailability. They would not take no for an answer. They were persistent. They said, Jesus, we're going to follow you. We're going to demand that you teach us and feed us and heal us. They were people who said, If at first you do not succeed, stay at it.

Martin Seligman, a professor at the University of Pennsylvania, took some dogs and put them in a cage. One side of the cage was wired to administer an electrical shock. On the other side of the cage there were no shocks. Seligman found that there were some dogs who, when shocked, would go to the other side of the cage. Whereupon they would receive no shocks. However, he found there were other dogs who would just passively stay on the same electrically wired part of the cage and continually receive shocks. They gave up. They were passive, sad, and lethargic. They would not eat. They displayed symptoms of clinical depression. Seligman subsequently coined the phrase, learned helplessness.

Jesus never presented the gospel as something that was going to be easy. Jesus said, Take up your cross and follow me; the way of the cross is often a way of hardship. Christianity requires sacrifice. It's hard sometimes. It requires suffering sometimes.

The adage by which we should live is, I will not leave you until you bless me. God, I really have this matter that's really bothering me. I'm not going to take no' for an answer. I'm going to stay at it.

I know that some of you are struggling with various issues. I've struggled with various matters myself. We may say to ourselves, God, I'm not going to leave you until you bless me. I'm going to keep hounding you. I'm going to stay after you. I'm not going to give up. If at first I don't get an answer from you, I'm not going to quit. What this often means is we live a life of active waiting. We say, I don't have the answer right now. I'm still waiting. Keep at it. Don't become passive. Don't give up.

Both the disciples and Jesus wanted to retreat. However the crowd was persistent. It would not let Jesus go. It demanded of Jesus, Heal us, minister to us. And Jesus did. And he will minister to us, if we don't give up. Amen.

The above is based on a sermon given by Carl Bickel on July 23, 2000.

© 2000 Carl O. Bickel